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I know how this feels. I'm sure some of you all do, as well. Surely, parents definitely experience this in day-to-day life dealing. Other will documented disabilities or other abilities, and those assigned or labeled as 'not as capable as others' because of race, gender, socioeconomic history, etc.
Think about the ones who get (and stay!) angry that and about what we speak or write or live - however we express ourselves. That's them 'fighting us'. Then we hear them repeating or teaching or see them walking in what we've expressed. That's their way of 'building monuments' to us. They also continue to seek more from us because we win...them over whether we try to or not, are aware or not, care or not. Google Jamarion Styles. He won! Nicholas Klein, a trade union activist, said something similar in a 1918 speech, saying, “First they ignore you. Then they ridicule you. And then they attack you and want to burn you. And then they build monuments to you.” Mahatma Gandhi -- First They Ignore You, Then They Laugh At You, Then They Fight You, Then You Win. *** Monument - something that serves as a memorial. Synonyms of win - reach, procure, gain, achieve, acquire, secure, obtain, overcome, triumph, prevail, conquer.
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You can still complain.
When we find ourselves in a sticky situation of our own doing, we may feel hesitant, ashamed, or not allowed to complain, vent, or seek advice about the bad parts of the situation. Don't. Don't what? Don't feel hesitant, ashamed or not allowed to complain, vent, or seek advice about the situation you willfully and knowingly did wrong and got yourself into. People will say "You made your bed. Now lie in it." That's people - humans who have no compassion, no memory of the messes they made, or was forced by self or others to just lie in their mess thinking they had no right to not like or complaing about the situation. Consider this example: Someone tells a child or adult to not go in that patch of greenspace over there. The child or adult goes anyway. The child or adult gets poison ivy. Regardless of how the person got the poison ivy rash, the person still deserves healthcare that will relieve the symptons and heal them of the poison ivy rash. Right? Right? How did you get your "poison ivy" rash? There will be some who are sympathetic but afraid to show you that sympathy. There will be some who are unsympathetic and will refuse to offer you aid. There will be some who are unsympathetic but will aid you because they see your need and are in the business of helping people with their needs regardless of who they got in need. All the above 'some' people will be people you know and who know you. Therefore, You may have to go to strangers who are willing or called to help anybody and everybody. (Ex: When we get poison ivy rash, if no one else will help us, a stranger in the form of a doctor or nurse will help us.). Regardless of your mess, God has someone to help you. Seek out that help. Don't believe you have to suffer just because you are blatantly at fault for the mess you are in. God said "Come let us reason together. God said There is room God said he doesn't want anyone to perish God brought healing to all through Christ Jesus. Last week, I listened to the sermons from January, 2024 up to now.
A day or two after I listened to the one about writing the vision, which I did not stop to do, I was given the message ANOTHER way - lol. First, I didn't stop to write the vision because I really never have written it out for other projects that I finished like I was assigned to do. Sure, I wrote things on my board...and what I write on the board always gets done...since 1997 when I put the board on the wall. So, maybe writing on the board can be considered writing the vision, in a sketchy (not bad, though) kind of way. I haven't written the three steps in a nice, neat form like I was taught in Strategic Planning classes in Bible College, for all projects except one that was written in that form. Nevertheless, the projects got done and dealt with according to instructions. Barbara Corocan, Shark Tank, said to forget the business plan...initially. She said the way she operates is when she gets an idea, she immediately starts doing it. She gave the advice for others to do the same. Go ahead and get it started, then do the business plan later and you'll know when later arrives. Ex: Sit down or go buy supplies immediately and start making knitting the scarves or making the birdhouses that day. My words "Get in the car and start it before you forget where you're supposed to be going." I get it. I did that with the printing business. I realized it was 'time', put out flyers, told my husband when he got home, and that evening, he started taking orders and brought home orders every day for a few years. To this day, he still brings in a few orders although we kinda shut the business down a few years ago. I also did the bracelet business the same way. Although it did better before 2020, I have no complaints about it. Back to the message! A couple of days later, a relative went to a game show taping. This relative had been before and watched the game on TV and had/has issues with the host cursing on TV and at the tapings. The relative sent me a text about how the day- trip went. The relative included that during the breaks, the host cursed and make jokes. first, then concluded in the last break an inspirational message, as he is apt to do. The inspirational message was 'Write the Vision'. All I could do was laugh at myself and get it done. SO, that night, I actually got out one of my notebooks, and followed the steps for my latest project. I wrote out the Vision, Mission, and Goals. The Book of Habakkuk. Old Testament, KJV or EXB Books and Wearables: Etsy.com/shop/becmin Art: Freepik.com [[Off the cuff. I'll clean it up soon.]]
(In a sermon, TDJ said something like we try to live up to our label. He was referencing the disciples replacing Judas because it was supposed to be TWELVE.) That stuck with me. When I worried, I felt ridiculous. God and me know each other. He's always come through. When I didn't worry, I was told I needed to be working on something 'visible' to others.) Actually, I'm always working on something...since 1985. Those who know, know and receive or help). Yesterday, God spoke this to me. We don't have to prop up God. If He's sadi nothing, He's said nothing. He has spoken when we have and when we haven't actively listented for him. He will speak when He is ready. In time. Timing. Season. Do not make up something to say God said it in an effort to cover for God's silence. God may wait quite a while to 'replace' the last blessing. God may not 'replace' the last blessing: (last job for another job; gone spouse for new spouse; child who is no longer with another child; house with a new house.) Wait. Don't make stuff up. Don't force a new blessing because everyone else is watching you for the 'next thing'. Wait. Dispel accusations of 'you didn't' against you: (you weren't listening; you didn't ask enough; you didn't ask right; you don't care enough.) Wait. *Scriptures are KJV and EXB
I've heard Christians proclaim that the devil gives blessings, too. I've heard that for years! I've always had some issues with that. Some Christians can be jealous of the blessings and riches of supposed non-Christians. First, Black Christians can't assume White, financially rich people are not Christians, Second, who has what is generally not anybody's business. Third, Old Testament leaders who were rich and harassed Israel, were allowed by God to be rich and to harass Israel. Fourth, Satan offered Jesus all the kingdoms of the world and was lying. Fifth, Hosea 2 says, the prostitute/Israel did not know God gave her corn, wine, oil, and multiplied her silver and gold, that she prepared for Baal/idols. SO, the prostitute/Israel had everything needed for life, plus some, although they acted wicked, lived foul and worshipped idols. Satan did not give them all that. God did. They just didn't realize or didn't acknowledge God for the blessings, but chose to give idols credit for the blessings. Hosea 5 - Ephraim and Israel were determined to be prostitutes - spiritual whores, God crushed them. They saw their wounds and ran to the King of Assyria, hoping for healing, instead of running back to God and repenting for choosing their own kings and worshipping the idols. Mankind (aka ‘man’ used to distinguish humans from animals in the Old Testament) tend to do the same. We go our own way, choose our own 'kings' (Hosea 8) such as people we choose to acquaint ourselves with who are not who we need to befriend or allow to influence us, get wounded, then run to the world for healing (lies, clothes, money, food, sex, cars, jewelry, friends of the devil, etc.) hoping to be healed, instead of running back to God who will heal us from our own self-destruction AND from the wounds He inflicted on us or allowed us to get so that we would return to Him. *************************************************************************************** *2.25.2024 Great Sunday School question from my Teacher's Discussion Sheet) - Why do you think people sometimes blame God for their problems? I believe there are three reasons: #1 - God ordains problems - JOB (ordain means suggest, propose, encourage, order or decree); #2 - God allows problems - ADAM/EVE (allow means permit, fail to restrain); #3 - God orchestrates problems – NOAH'S Ark/The Flood Story (orchestrate means arrange, direct the elements of) We use the word 'blame' in an accusatory way, but God's purpose is that all things work together for our good, for those who are called according to God's purpose. ************************************************************************************** 03.29.2024 God Is Not Controlling. Hosea 11:4, 7, 8, 9, 10 With Lovingkindness have I drawn thee. 4 - I drew them with cords of a man, with bands of love: and I was to them as they that take off the yoke on their jaws, and I laid meat unto them. 4 - I led them with cords of human kindness, with ropes of love. I lifted the yoke from their neck and bent down and fed them. We, individually or corporately, to this day, can be determined to disobey God - not delaying because we're thinking about it, trying to figure it out, or don't understand the assignment; but actively, purposely, determinedly refuse to do what God says. 7 - And my people are bent to backsliding from me:... 7 - My people have made up their minds to turn away from me. God prefers to bless us. 8 - How shall I give thee up, Ephraim? how shall I deliver thee, Israel? how shall I make thee as Admah? how shall I set thee as Zeboim? mine heart is turned within me, my repentings are kindled together. 8 - Israel, how can I give you up? How can I hand you away, Israel? I don't want to make you like Admah or treat you like Zeboiim [two cities destroyed together with Sodom and Gomorrah]. My heart beats for you, and my love for you stirs up my pity. I like how he uses Ephraim and Israel, like a parent would say "John, why did you do this? Explain it to me, Son, so I'll understand what made you do this?" OR "Your my Precious. You are the one, Oldest, so I expect better out of you." OR "Rich, go do ... for your family. Husband, that's what you are now, so go do ... for your family." See what I mean with the use of John and Son or First Name/Nickname and Place in the family At this point, God is not mean like Man, i.e., human/mankind/not animal, has been towards Israel 9- I will not execute the fierceness of mine anger, I will not return to destroy Ephraim: for I am God, and not man; the Holy One in the midst of thee: and I will not enter into the city. 9 - I won't punish you in my anger, and I won't destroy Israel again. I am God and not a human; I am the Holy One, and I am among you. I will not come against you in anger. God wants his people to follow him because they should because they recognize him as Lord/Lion. 10 - They shall walk after the LORD: He shall roar like a lion: when he shall roar, then the children shall tremble from the west. 10 - They will go after [follow] the LORD, and he will roar like a lion. When he roars, his children will hurry [come trembling] to him from the west. (11 - They will come swiftly [or trembling]... **************************************************************************************** 4.03.2024 Hosea 12:10 I LOVE the word similtudes. Definition - the quality or state of being similar to something; a comparison between two things; a person or thing resembling someone or something else. Synonyms - parallel, sameness, equivalence, analogy. This verse reminds me of Ezekiel 20 regarding Israel's rebellion and God speaks of how he "wrought for my name's sake" meaning He worked every which way he could to make Israel look like his chosen people so that his name would not be laughed at by others. In verse 10, God explains that he sent prophets with many visions and used parables/similitudes in an effort to explain to Israel His goodness, their rebellion, and their need to return to him. He didn't scoff and say "forget them". He tried mightily to help them know his goodness, mercy, love and desire for them to return to him. Also, in chapter 12, God particularly didn't want them, with their ill-gained riches, to oppress people like they had been oppressed by others who had chose Israel against whom to use their deceitful ways of gaining riches. 10 - I have also spoken by the prohets, and I have multiplied visions, and used similitudes, by the ministry of the prophets. 10 - I spoke to the prophets and gave them many visions; through them, I taught my lessons [spoke in parables; or spoke oracles of doom] to you. https://journals.co.za/doi/pdf/10.10520/AJA10109919_488#:~:text=Ephraim's%20leading%20position%20in%20Israel,(Wolff%201961%3A292). www.etsy.com/shop/becmin Listen, one thing they can't say to our faces, and to others who know what they do, is that we don't know anything.
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Surely, at some point in the future, someone will 'correct' tongue for teeth. When the contradiction/'correction' comes, I'll link the video (because I'm sure they will be on video). God told me to use teeth and teeth is what I used. Freepik.com/macrovector Buy wearables on www.etsy.com/shop/becmin If one can turn 'all that' upside down, then all that was weak to begin with OR those who are a part of all that are awfully dramatic about the whole situation OR using that one as a scapegoat OR using that one as a distraction to draw attention away from the real issues they do not want to sit down, face-to-face, discuss, be transparent about and hashout until there is a confession made, apologies given and solution agreed upon.
I've heard Christians proclaim that the devil gives blessings, too. I've heard that for years! I've always had some issues with that. Some Christians can be jealous of the blessings and riches of supposed non-Christians. First, Black Christians can't assume White financially rich people are not Christians. Second, who has what is generally not anybody's business! Third, Old Testament leaders who were rich and harrassed Israel, were allowed by God to be rich and to harrass Israel. Fourth, Satan offered Jesus all the kingdoms of the world and was lying. Fifth, Hosea 2 says, the prostitute/Israel did not know God gave her corn, wine, oil, and multiplied her silver and gold, that she prepared for Baal/idols. SO, the prostitute/Israel had everything needed for life plus some, although they acted wicked, lived foul and worshipped idols. Satan did not give them all that. God did and they just didn't realize or didn't acknowledge God for it, but chose to give idols credit for their blessings. Someone once pointed out that cloistered nuns are not really trusting God to keep them in the world if they seclude themselves from the world. As young folk would say these days, where's the lie? I'm not against nuns. I've LOVE the idea of the Nun's life since Young Adulthood simply because I love the idea of always, always - every day, all the time - being in a space, building, campus related to spirituality. Yet, if one keeps him or herself from the world or non-Christians, except when lording over them through leadership or charity ventures, then where's the faith that God will keep them saved and Holy while in/moving about the world? Where's the faith? It's possible to avoid family functions, jobs and coworkers in the REAL world, gatherings with non-Christian groups, dating, and attending secular places of entertainment, BUT why? We know the answer is not to not want to be tainted by non-Christians. Jesus wasn't stuck up about that, so why should Christians be? How does one claim a great faith that God is a keeper, Counselor, etc, if they keep themselves away from everyone and anyone that might not be live right 24/7? Plus, they can't get away from the selves, from their own flesh, from the devil going after them even if they put themselves in a bubble of Christianity. The simple determination of who is or isn't saved enough for you to be around surely borders on judging fellow humans. (Original short version.)
The other day, I read a quote (and a song) that suggested that I should remove the pebble from my shoe rather than leaving it there and learning to limp 'comfortably'. As I thought on the quote, I was reminded that God said we are more than conquerors. What represents the pebble in a shoe? A bill, job, relationship, or material possession? NO matter what we do, the pebble causes pain and a limp. Let's allow God to have that pebbleand heal us completely, deliver us totally and set us free from indeed from the limp, so we can run our race. We have the Lion of the Tribe of Judah within us.
There have been times when I/you/we have entered a room, and someone has gone into ...mode because they see the Lion. ......................................... Read the full Blog post on my personal FB page. Rebecca Crowder Clark. Send a Friends Request. ....................................... It's a compliment and also a 'confession' that they recognize The Lion and that they don't have The Lion within. For women who believe - freely or forced - that their only role in the Kingdom is to obey their husband (or Father or Leader until they get married): How do the women interact in worship service? Do they listen? Do they try to learn what’s taught or preached? Do they study for themselves? Why do any of that when their salvation boils down to “Just follow your husband and you’ll make it to Heaven?" Why try? Why learn? Why progress beyond studying only to be more obedient to the man? Schools – Black, White, diverse – are big on teaching and leading kids to be BIG, powerful, leaders, achievers. How do female students fit that teaching in with their religious community that models that they are less-than in God’s eye and only valuable to God if they are obeying their man? How do they balance going into the workforce as leaders then going home and acting like their dumb to please the man and supposedly fulfill God's rule for them? Some girls find that making achievements in education (elementary to post graduate) useless if they'll have to spend their private home and spiritual life dummying down? Wjy bother rising in the workforce just to return home dsily to bow down and play dumb? As well, consider the women who are run by their spouse and their spouse allows other men to run them, too. That woman is bossed around and has her life tasks aasigned to her by her husband and any other man he choses - parent, friend, leader, neighbors ("Oh, just call my wife anytime. She'll help out. She'll volunteer.") without regard to her needs and desires. She IS one MISERABLE woman no matter how much she smiles. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/ztD8fhbuB92BRmGe/?mibextid=oFDknk It is not the male's calling to punish the women because of what Eve did. Image by <a href="https://www.freepik.com/free-photo/people-carrying-burden-concept_36029269.htm#query=burdened&position=37&from_view=search&track=sph&uuid=37c61175-18f9-4780-a14b-f57777f758c4">Freepik</a> www.etsy.com/shop/becmin Note: I thought I'd done this one before. I know I have. I don't know where? Radio? Facebook? Twitter? I don't remember. Here it goes again. Read. Learn.
If you don't start a relationship right and with honesty, it may never 'get right'. I knew an adult who was really interested in someone much younger, which was not a big deal, because they both were adults. Apparently, he was feeling uncomfortable, which I guess is a good thing. Some are not uncomfortable in a relationsihp with a 10 year age gap. The person presented themself as a potential business partner and trainer of the person he was intersted in. (It was obvious to me that one liked the other but I didn't speak of it to either party. ) This "relationship' dragged out for years. It never evolved into what he wanted to begin with because he wasn't brave enough to be honest. The 'friendship' eventually dissolved in a hurtful way to the other party. Who's to says the relationship would have blossomed had the initiating partner been honest and just asked the other person out? Whether it worked out or not, it would have been an honest foundation to build on or to decide how to not build on it as in be friends, enemies, or nothing at all. Both limped their separate ways uncomfortable in the smallest of interactions because they didn't start right and even ending it all still reeks of uncomfortableness. I don't see them as often as I would like. Both are great people. Both are successful in their own right, but have an awkwardness that could have been avoided had they began on the right foundation of honesty. (On the flip side, I've dealt with people who approached me - nice or nasty - because they thought I was one or two decades younger than I was and they had the notion to reign over me or boss me around or condescend to me. Depending on the length of our interactions, many times when I realized someone thought I was younger, I had to determine when and how to tell them my age. When I did, in some instances people either got angry because they felt deceived although THEY ASSUMED my age and their superiority over me, apologetic because they had a clean heart and intentions, or just deserted me in the process because they couldn't switch from treating me as being in some way 'beneath' them to treating me like an equal or older-than-them (lol) adult. (I don't have those issues now that I'm in decade 6. ) The point is: Start with honesty if it's a potential love relationship and without arrogance, condescencion, or a superiority complex if it is any other kind of potential relationship/partnership and don't ASSUME anything. <ahref="https://www.freepik.com/free-photo/heavy-machines-construction-workers-working-building_9282739.htm#query=foundation&position=32&from_view=search&track=sph&uuid=17151968-9df2-4103-ae0e-83f5105692ab">Image by wirestock</a> on Freepik www.etsy.com/shop/becmin |
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